Women often complain of men being EU. But rarely do they realize that they too can be EU. Take a look at these signs that indicate you are an EU wife. 1. Less communication: You talk less when your husband is around. You do not react much to what he says and keep mum most of the time. Emotional incest can create an unhealthy sense of loyalty or obligation to a parent, which can result in a love / hate relationship between children and parents. Additionally, substance abuse.